Love?
I believe that you have to be willing to lay down your life for someone before you say that you love that certain person. People will say they love each other casually as they walk past each other, but do they really mean it?
Adolescents often confuse this term with I like you. These two concepts have two entire different meanings. If you like someone you could hang around each other and not disagree. If you love someone you should be willing to die for them. Before you truly love someone, like in a relationship you should get to know each other better. If it is family, then you already kind of love them in a brother and sister sort of way.
Say that you are with your boyfriend or girlfriend and they tell you that they love you. This might just be a comment to get your approval or it might really be serious. If you are my age I caution you to wait to do anything until you are at least 18 because it would be against the law. But if you are 55 and still are not married you need to hurry up. Kidding! Before you are serious about anything make sure that person loves you and that you love them back.
If you are not willing to lay down your life for someone, you don’t truly love them. I am sorry to say, but that off- hand comment isn’t real until you make it real. After being through a lot with someone, you might feel as if you love them. This might be true. Sometimes when people experience a lot together they feel inseparable. This is understandable. Don’t say or do something that you will regret later.